Lisa Miller R.I.P. on Facebook The uses and abuses of virtual grief. Published Feb 17, 2010 From the magazine issue dated Mar 1, 2010 Minutes after news broke that the British fashion designer Alexander McQueen was dead, a suicide at age 40, the prayers and condolences started pouring in. More than 80,000 people became "fans" of McQueen on Facebook in the first week. In the first day, messages ..